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Get out of your head!

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Good morning, to you all internet marketers. How do you feel? Awesome? Groggy?

Well, for me, I have been feeling a bit disconnected. What do I mean by “disconnected”? I feel that I am always in my mind debating which option is good which one is bad. That’s a great mentality to have when you are planning a business but in a bad reality when you do that in a conversation.

Picture this: you walk up to a complete stranger and you have nothing to say. In all reality, you do but you are too far in mind to say anything. You are just too conscious about what you are going to say. Eventually, the conversation dies off and you’re left feeling a bit weird. That’s the effect of being in your head.

How have you gone through this? I know, it sucks. However, there is a way around it. Before you find yourself in a conversation and you can’t just help but be in mind. Remember that there’s nothing you can say that can be all that clever. No, really! Forget about being funny and classy. Mainly because what you are going to say isn’t going to remembered as that. Those things, by the way, seem to happen by accident anyway.

Also, working out can also help you tons, too.

How To NOT GET LONELY while you’re working online

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Apparently, I am starting to notice a trend among people who decide to take upon the “internet marketing” oath. I see this everywhere and so many internet marketers (and sometimes affiliate marketers) are alone working on the computer. Why do they choose to be alone? Is it a matter of efficiency? Do you have to choose between friends or the lifestyle?
Frankly, even if I live the lifestyle I want I can’t quite see it doing it alone. Traveling the world alone. Skydiving alone. Staying home alone instead going to work like everyone else.

Nope, I don’t see that happening. Perhaps, business isn’t for me. Perhaps, I don’t have to choose. Yeah, I don’t choose between anything of it. I incorporate both. It’s what I do. I refuse to choose between my friends and my business because there’s no need to. I am still studying people and do continue with full intent to better my skills with people. It would be a slap in the face if I just up and stop that. Slapping myself. I utterly refuse that.

How do I do that? Are you forgetting where you are? You’re online. (You have to be in order to read this.) That means you have an advantage compared to someone working back before there were computers. You can go on Facebook and start poking random people. You can send random message to someone (or everyone.) In Twitter, you can send Direct Messages and mention people (using @followingtheirTwittername). You can even go on YouTube and comment on the videos and join groups.

In fact, you are alone as an internet marketer then you’re probably not marketing right. You are supposed to engage people and tell people about your product, your site, your opportunities. Money will always involve people and therefore, don’t stay there at the computer “working.” There’s a time to plan but there’s also a time to engage people. If you’re still alone then it’s time for you to engage people.